Red flags for dating a loser
Although God has been my comforter through it all, I learned how to lean and depend on him, he’s my strength. I just ended a relationship with someone who checked a few, but not all of the boxes.
I couldn’t have made it out of my situation without him. Because the abuse was more subtle, it was harder to recognize and left me second-guessing myself continually.
Some man from her past has sought her out and is now playing games with her. If he’s already playing games, it doesn’t seem like a good sign.At the end, he was also telling me how I made him feel – which were all of the ways an N makes a victim feel. He was cheating on me and making me feel like his cheating was my fault.It’s so hard trying to keep up with the twists and turns of their thinking.Thank you for sharing xo Thank you this list describes my marriage my husband for the last 25 years I have been separated for the last 6 months and am currently living in women’s aid refuge however I feel I am having to return home due to financial reasons which I can’t seem to resolve, my husband knows where i am all the time because I work in the village where we live,we have 3 daughters who support my decision,but my husband uses them to get to me,this and all the years has had an enormous part to play in my emotional well being,my self confidence self esteem and then depression I feel quite lost.Thank you:) this is excellent list, but one thing i’d like to add: loser wants to borrow money from you but fails to pay back or Just gives you part of the money ( after confronting him). It is amazing how “borrowing” money indicates abuse!! Reading these responses helps me to know that im not alone, which helps me to know that there is hope on happiness and peace again in life.