Intimidating boss help
Think about it for a moment, how hard do you work at avoiding that person?Now ask yourself this simple question: There is always some core reason for such strong feelings.
Emotional triggers can be used to take control of people in just about any area you can think of. As soon as you choose not to grant permission to the would be source of intimidation, you render them powerless. They can still rev up their engine, but they really can’t go anywhere.
Why does it feel like they are able to take control of your feelings?
Perhaps they are your employer or supervisor and it feels like they hold your career in the palm of their hand. Maybe they are just plain mean and confrontational and you are one of their favorite targets. In a moment I am going to answer that question for you, but there is a good chance you won’t like what I am about to say.
Feelings are an internal emotional response, that means they come from us not some external source.
Nothing has any emotional value or meaning in our life except that which we assign it. We decide if something has emotional significance or not.